Monday, March 31, 2008

I am home!

I am home from a long weekend with my best friend. Her mom passed away and she was pretty ok with it. She had been dealing with her for a while now and she was ready for this. I loved how much she took care of her mom after everything that went on with them. She is a great example of forgiveness that I hope I can show someday to someone who doesn't do me the greatest. Which leads me to this story where I need to show forgiveness but its hard. Someone I don't even know, I may have seen her 2 times and she doesn't know me at all. She told one of my best friends that did not know we were best friends that I married my husband for money. It took me the whole weekend to get over that. I love my husband so much and for some one to say that really irked me. I came home last night and wasn't feeling good and I just cried in my husband's arms and he took care of me. He is the greatest guy for me and I am not heartless and marrying anyone for their money. I hope one day this person realizes how much they wronged me, and the sad fact they will never see the true side of me. I hope I don't run into this person because I could embaress her. But I won't.

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Our new favorite show

I have liked this show when it first came out. My Name is Earl s a funny show and me and my husband started watching it on TBS and it cracks us up. My husband has never watched it before and he laughs so hard. I knew it would be the kinda show that he would like. He especially likes Joy, she is funny.
My husband s not very happy with me. I racked up about 31 $5.00 parking tickets and since they are a year old there is a $25.00 late fee tacked on to that. Add that all up and its 935.00 for all the tickets. On top of that there is a dining room on craigs list that is $850.00 and I really want it. It comes with all the chairs and the hutch. It is only a year old and the people are getting rid of it because they are buying a brand new house and they want brand new furniture. Also if I wanted that same dining room set, I could go to roomstore and pay $2500.00 for it. Now that dining room is a steal. We might go look at it tomorrow. My husband is trying to teach me responsibilty by not letting me have the dining room set until I can figure out how to get rid of my tickets. But even he knows that this dining room is a good deal.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Thursday PS nights

Well its Thursday night and me and my husband have named it PS night. Now its secret code for something private that we enjoy together. Anyway tonite is Lost night. I am completely amazed with this show. They contunue to amaze me every week. Some weeks its frustrating and confusing, but I can't help but come back week after week. You know that is like marriage sometimes its all fun and games, but there are still some days that are frustrating and confusing, but you keep coming back for more. There are some people however that don't come back for more and they settle for divorce which is sad. I love my husband but sometimes he makes me mad, and I know that I make him mad or crazy some days. He puts up with a lot from me. I am high matienence in the little ocd ways. I used to be the girl who didn't care about how she looks or go without makeup to work. I didn't care how my hair looked because I couldn't do anything with it.

My OCD now is that I don't like my hair to look the same everyday. I know that it must be wierd but its true. Now I used to wear my hair the same way until a hairdresser about 4 years ago discovered that I can wear it curly. Well I love that my hair has a lot of different styles. When its raining or humid outside I know I can wear it curly, and I know how to style it straight, and wear it curly with a curling iron. See there is my ocd going again, and I made a whole blog about it. I don't think that any reads my blog so its kinda of like my diary. I almost wrote dairy and then had to look at it.
I gotta watch Lost now.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Back to normal!

My husband got home last night. I could not wait for him to get home. I went to his favorite place B-dubs(Buffalo wild wings) and got him the boneless wings with medium sauce. He said I was the best wife in the world. Then we went home and did what normal newlyweds would do. If you know what I mean! Anyway we are starting a diet tomorrow. We are going to try to do the Best life diet. I don't know how its going to work but hopefully we can lose some weight. We have both gained a little since we have been married. We both want to be commited but its very hard. Hopefully it will work out.

When I first moved to Fayetteville and started working downtown I got some parking tickets. If you stayed parked in the same spot for more than two hours you get a 5 dollar ticket. I got 31 of them. I have not paid them and they went to a collection agency and they added 25 late fee charge to each of them. I was trying to make a statement and not pay them but it backfired, becuase now I owe $950 dollars. That is really bad and Michael is not happy.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Home Alone and Guitar Hero

Well Michael has been gone for 4 days, and it feels like forever. Good thing that my aunt is staying with me or I would go crazy. She doesn't come to my house until late so its just me and Annabell. Since Michael is gone I take care of Annabell, he had her a long time before he found me, so I am like the stepmother. No matter what I do, she will always run to Michael. Well Michael has been gone and I have been taking care of her, and hopefully when he comes back I will still be her favorite. Fat chance but I can hope. My motherly instincts have not kicked in yet, because 2 nights ago she peed on the floor twice. Oops, so yesterday I took her out twice when we got home and no accidents.

While I am home alone, the great thing is I can watch whatever I want. Michael does not like reality TV, so we watch something different. But now that he is gone I have been watching everything. Also I play guitar hero. Michael likes the game but he is only on easy and has lost interest in it. I stopped playing about 2 weeks ago because I had gotten to a part I couldn't beat. Well one of my friends came over a beat it for me. So I beat the game on medium. This week I started playing on hard. I have only gotten past one level. It is the same songs that are in medium except that they have added another key( the dreaded orange key). Well it takes me a few times to beat a song now, but I am slowly progressing. Michael will come back to a rock star!

He comes home on Saturday! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, March 9, 2008

Las Vegas Bound!

My brand new spanking husband is leaving for Vegas for a whole week for a construction expo. He is the co owner of a grading company and he has been talking about this expo when we first started dating 2 years ago. Anyway this will be the first time we will have been apart. We have not been married 2 months. My aunt is coming to stay with me so I won't be lonely. I also got my haircut today. My hair has no style at all. Now it does. I have a sister in law that does hair and since I am part of the family now I get my haircuts for free. But I am definitly not the kind of girl who gets her haircut every month. I should but I don't. I will have to put pictures up of what it looks like. Hopefully next time that Michael goes somewhere I can go with him. Michael also likes to gamble a little. Last time he was in Vegas he tripled his money and I am hoping that happens again. I don't like gambling because the only time that I did it was on our cruise and I didn't win anything. I don't like losing my money for the heck of it. Back to work tomorrow.

Thursday, March 6, 2008


Ok I know that I have not put enough wedding pictures on here. But this one is my absolute favorite. The one that seals the deal.
I have tried to steal pictures from my photographer on his website but it has not worked yet. I wrote an article about the wedding for my office newsletter, and you know the show The Office(mine is just like that!) We even have a party planning committee and I am on it. I also wrote a cheer for the newspaper about thanking all my vendors. I appreciate them so much. My family and I did not have to worry about a thing. Debbie Lown is the best wedding coordinator ever.

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Boring lives

My husband and I live very boring lives. We go to work and come home and hang out with each other and then on the weekends we do the same thing but we might hang out with our friends too. We have great friends. Although the weekend before last we went out and bought me a brand new car. I can't think of the statement of brand new car without thinking Bob barker in the price is right saying "You just won a Brand New Carrrr!" It only had 14 miles on it. I have never owned a brand spanking new car. I know I sound a little prideful sorry. This weekend we are going to a Ronnie Milsap concert with friends because my husband has always wanted to see him. We are going to Roanoke Rapids which is the old Randy Parton theater. Big news in North Carolina.

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Sunday Afternoons

Here my husband and I are watching a movie and I am supposed to be filling out wedding thank you notes. I just can't seem to get started. Its the procrastinator in me. Where are my bridesmaids now?? My husband doesn't want to help me either. Oh well they can wait another week. I rearranged my living room yesterday and I need to take some pictures. I should have taken before and after. I like a whole lot better now. Its not so standard now. I like traditional design with a little contemporary. I have a huge hole above my fireplace where the tv is supposed to go but ours is too big to go in there. So I need candles and or a fern or something decorative.